The cage makes my subby side come out, and you really just wanna latch on and have some good snuggles that night. I know especially in grad school I would often just jack off to get it out of the way, so locking up makes everything a little more fun and out of reach. I've often had a lower sex drive than the partners that I'm with, so I've found it actually gets me going a little more. I was a hot mess… it was all over my pants, my coat, everything. I was standing and hadn't realized that you have to sit down to go when you're locked up. When you read a story or watch a porn, it's sexy the whole time, but you have to clean it every day, you have to make sure you're trimmed, so it doesn't pinch your hair, you have be sure you're cautious when using a restroom… I remember one time I used a public bathroom and ended up getting pee everywhere. What surprised you the most about wearing a cage? For me, it's a lot of the wearing something sexy and people not knowing. I remember back in high school getting high-top chucks because it was a really low-level form of bondage you could wear every day because it restricted your ankle. Someone saying 'wear this shirt' or 'wear this underwear,' that stuff gets me excited.
I'm into someone having a certain level of control over me. It's the 'not getting off' part I like the most.
